Forget about taboos, this guide will help you choose your first sex toy, be it a vibrator or a dildo.
Talking about sexuality and female pleasure is a taboo that has accompanied women almost since the beginning of time. But maybe it’s time to change and eradicate that idea and start enjoying sexuality openly. It does not matter if it is with or without a partner.
Therefore, if you are thinking of buying your first sex toy , we talk with Mandy Garrigó, Country Manager in Mexico of the famous Spanish brand Cirillas, an online store of articles for sexual enjoyment and pleasure that has just arrived in our country.
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Cirillas is not only a vibrator shop, but they themselves consider themselves a social movement that seeks to empower women through information and guides made by sexologists.
We have focused on the female audience because it is the one that needs to normalize it the most. The man talks about his sexuality since he was little, he touches himself since he was little, it is normal for a man to masturbate. On the other hand, a woman does not have it so normalized, they do not know each other that well and we are more complicated both physically and mentally, “said Mandy.
Therefore, we asked him what his recommendations would be so that you decide once and for all to order your sex toy online. Not for nothing, online sales of these items have increased during the COVID-19 pandemic by as much as 200 percent in some cases, according to the New York Times .
This is what you need to take into account when ordering your first sex toy online:
1) What do you have, penis or vagina?
What Mandy explained that the first thing you should take into account is the sexual organ that you are going to stimulate and they classify it in this way because in Cirilla’s they are aware that dividing sexual pleasure by gender would be leaving out all the people that diversity encompasses sexual.
2) Are you going to use it alone or as a couple?
A sex toy is not necessarily just for people who are single or have no sex life. Mandy explained that, according to a survey done by Cirillas found that more than 70 percent of people have the fantasy of using their sex toys with their partner, “but many are ashamed to tell them that they would like to try new things.”
3) If you are a woman, it is important to take into account if you have had sexual intercourse previously
“If you’ve never had them, I wouldn’t recommend an internal vaginal toy, an external stimulation would be better,” Mandy said.
4 What do you want your new toy for?
Mandy assured that before answering this question, you need to know yourself and self-explore to know what you like the most.
“If the woman doesn’t know what she wants, I would always recommend starting with external stimulation,” he explained, noting that there are also toys that help stimulate the G-spot.
5 Where are you going to use it?
You should take into account that there are toys that are not waterproof or there are some specifically designed to improve your sexual health, such as Chinese bags that exercise the pelvic floor.
Once you have answered these questions, you are ready to order your toy; and don’t worry about the packaging . Mandy assured that Cirillas respects the privacy of its customers and all shipments are made in cardboard boxes without any type of advertising. In addition, each toy comes in a sealed bag that guarantees its hygiene and includes a satin bag for you to store and a dose of lubricant.
If you want to know more about this brand, learn how to enjoy your sexuality in a healthy and responsible way and decide now to order your first sex toy, we recommend you visit the Cirillas page